In today’s world, many couples are not concerned about it.
They are just simply having sex with each other every time they get together, and that’s the central part of their lives.
However, every time we try to stay pure we end up slipping up.
What makes matters worse is that I am currently four hours away at school and every time we see each after being apart a week or two (even when we have had full intentions of not being sexual) we end up falling into our old habits.
Leon Kass, respected author, professor and bio-ethicist, puts words to our worst fears in this second excerpt from a three-part series. Reading romantic subtext into completely normal communication?
Though it's discouraging news, being able to expose the problem is the first step toward finding a solution. Maybe you've been through a breakup but you can't stop thinking about your ex.
In fact, the younger you are, the odds higher are that you’re actually going to have fewer partners than previous generations.They become intimidated by women whom they fear have more experience than they do.They become too afraid to approach , never mind people they’re attracted to.They’re not married, don’t know if they’ll ever get married, and are just enjoying each other’s bodies.Most people who live together before they get married don’t get married and those who do have a higher divorce rate. You’ve already agreed that this is not the biblical pattern and thus is not a healthy pattern. What you’re demonstrating, by the fact that you say, “I want to do this but we always fall back into the same pattern again” is the strong bonding nature of sexual relationships. Sex was designed to be a deep bonding experience between a husband and wife.