James says dating can be very tough for guys, yet for fit, reasonably attractive women it's very easy."There's a small number of extremely attractive women (the city is famous for models) and, because of the weather, everything is always on display.
It seems there are 10 tall, athletic, masculine, highly-paid guys for each hot girl," says James."It has a heavy, almost-overwhelming sport, beach, drinking culture compared to most other places in Australia.
A woman who grew up in eastern Sydney may need to marry a man on a reasonable income if she is to live near where she grew up, and be able to take time off work to raise her kids," says James.
In this respect, he argues Sydney has become very much like New York and London: There are lots of accomplished, lonely people here."Many people's lives seem largely work and career-focused and there's very little time for anything else; dating, travel, arts, culture, sport, seeking some enlightenment, happiness," says James.
So much so, that many decent women just give up on dating altogether, making the dating pool even smaller for less confident guys."Still, James says many guys do struggle to attract women in Sydney for a variety of reasons.(iii) "Many desirable guys new to Sydney report seeing many attractive women by day, but have no luck ever finding where they go at night.
James and his team at Social Coach have worked all over Australia helping men with their social and romantic skills and also sniffed around nightclubs and bars in all our major cities. Adelaide"Seriously, hot girls will come and pick you up if you can dress OK and hold their eye contact," says James.If you're not skilled or bold enough to try to talk to girls during the day it can be a really difficult city," says James.(iv) "Kings Cross sucks in a huge percentage of the city's most attractive women at night, leaving far less for other places.So, if the Cross is not your style, you'd think hot girls don't go to bars much."(v) "The extremely high cost of living and spectacular property prices understandably can make some women fairly cautious in their choice of mate.Our members are highly eligible successful singles who are looking to meet a like-minded equal.They enjoy being active, leading a healthy lifestyle, travel frequently, are open minded, enjoy cultural…“I tell my clients to think of me as a well connected friend who can introduce them to other like-minded compatible singles.